Making a Will - are you too afraid to do it?

It seems that the majority of us are, more often than not, too afraid to make a will. Research indicates that over half of adults in the UK have not made wills.  

The consequence of making a will is not that you will immediately die, although to hear some people’s reasons for not making a will that clearly is a real fear.

For some reason it appears that it is the male of the species who is particularly reluctant to make arrangements about what will happen to them, their family and their possessions when they die. 

Young children and older people seem able to discuss death in a matter of fact way and to contemplate it without the emotion and fear some of those in the middle age range feel. 

You owe it to your family and friends.

Once the will has been made, the worst contemplated (such as the simultaneous deaths of all your close family) and your wishes made clear, you can relax in the knowledge that you have done the right thing and made the best arrangements you can for your family and friends.  You will then feel free to go off and enjoy your life without that nagging feeling that you ought to be doing something about making a will.

Such peace of mind must be worth it? 

That’s the thing about death, we all know it will happen, but we do not know when it will come knocking. To put off making a will until you are old or ill could be leaving it too late to do the best you can for those you care about.

To find out more about making wills and future planning, please get in touch with our experienced team of Wills, Trusts and Probate solicitors.

Hayley is an Associate Director and Head of Wills, Probate & Trusts at Verisona Law.

Hayley started her journey at Verisona Law in 2008 as a Trainee solicitor, and now heads up the Wills, Trusts and Probate team. She has a particular interest in dealing with the administration of estates and associated tax matters. Hayley has worked on a wide variety of cases, including some notably high value estates and she regularly provides advice to clients regarding Wills and Lasting Powers of Attorney.

Hayley is a member of Solicitors for the Elderly and the Society of Trust and Estate Practitioners (STEP).




Hayley graduated from Southampton University in 2007 with a 2:1 in Law and went on to study her Legal Practice Course at the College of Law, Guildford. This she passed with a distinction the following year.

Hayley is a fully qualified member of STEP (the Society of Trust and Estate Practitioners), meaning that she is a specialist in this area of law.

  • Wills and Codicils
  • Probate and administration of estates
  • Trusts
  • Deeds of Variation
  • Lasting Powers of Attorney and all matters relating to the Office of the Public Guardian
  • Deputyship applications and related Court of Protection matters
  • Declarations of Trust and related property matters
  • Initial advice regarding contentious wills and probate matters

“If it had not been for the EPA I would have had real problems even discussing my mother’s affairs with banks, investment companies, government departments and care providers, much less paying her bills from her account.

“Being able to supply copies of the EPA to the various parties meant they would speak to me and act on my instructions. Without it I would have had to pursue a long, complicated and expensive legal process – at a very difficult time personally.

“I would absolutely recommend planning ahead and making an LPA. It could make a huge difference to your loved ones.”


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